Proverbs 17:1-28 (NIV)
1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, a]">[a] with strife.
2 A wise servant will rule over a disgraceful son, and will share the inheritance as one of the brothers.
3 The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but the LORD tests the heart.
4 A wicked man listens to evil lips; a liar pays attention to a malicious tongue.
5 He who mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker; whoever gloats over disaster will not go unpunished.
6 Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.
7 Arrogant b]">[b] lips are unsuited to a fool— how much worse lying lips to a ruler!
8 A bribe is a charm to the one who gives it; wherever he turns, he succeeds.
9 He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.
10 A rebuke impresses a man of discernment more than a hundred lashes a fool.
11 An evil man is bent only on rebellion; a merciless official will be sent against him.
12 Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool in his folly.
13 If a man pays back evil for good, evil will never leave his house.
14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.
15 Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent— the LORD detests them both.
16 Of what use is money in the hand of a fool, since he has no desire to get wisdom?
17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
18 A man lacking in judgment strikes hands in pledge and puts up security for his neighbor.
19 He who loves a quarrel loves sin; he who builds a high gate invites destruction.
20 A man of perverse heart does not prosper; he whose tongue is deceitful falls into trouble.
21 To have a fool for a son brings grief; there is no joy for the father of a fool.
22 A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
23 A wicked man accepts a bribe in secret to pervert the course of justice.
24 A discerning man keeps wisdom in view, but a fool's eyes wander to the ends of the earth.
25 A foolish son brings grief to his father and bitterness to the one who bore him.
26 It is not good to punish an innocent man, or to flog officials for their integrity.
27 A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.
28 Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue.
6 examples of being tested:
1. Abraham (Genesis 22)
2. Israel (Deuteronomy 8:2)
3. Hezekiah (2 Chronicles 32:31)
4. Mary and Martha (John 11:5-6)
5. Rich young ruler (Matthew 19:16-22)
6. The Syrophenecian woman (Matthew 15:23-28)
4 great sins:
1. Lying (v 4)
2. Deceit (v 4)
3. Mockery (v 5)
4. Gloating (v 5)
2 examples of mocking the poor:
1. Princes of Judah (Isaiah 3:14-15; 10:2)
2. The rich (James 5:4)
4 examples of beginning strife:
1. The Ephraimites (Judges 12:1-6)
2. Abner (2 Samuel 2:14-17)
3. Rehoboam (2 Chronicles 10:1-16)
4. Jeroboam (2 Chronicles 13:17)
4 examples of condemning the just:
1. The counsellors (Ezra 4:1-16)
2. Ahab and Jezebel (1 Kings 21:5-24)
3. The Jews (Matthew 27:11-50)
4. Tertullus (Acts 24:1-9)
7 examples of lack of wisdom:
1. Israel (2 Chronicles 30:10)
2. The Jews (Luke 4:28)
3. Herod Antipas (Luke 23:11)
4. The Jews (John 5:40; 8:45)
5. Athenians (Acts 17:32-33)
6. Felix (Acts 24:25-27)
7. Herod Agrippa (Acts 26:28)
10 examples of lasting friendship:
1. Abraham (Genesis 14:14)
2. Joseph (Genesis 45:5; 50:2)
3. Moses (Exodus 32:11-13; Deuteronomy 9:18-29)
4. Jonathan (1 Samuel 20:33)
5. Barzillai (2 Samuel 19:32)
6. Ahikam (Jeremiah 26:24)
7. Ebed-melech (Jeremiah 38:7)
8. Paul (Philemon 12, 20)
9. Barnabas (Acts 9:27)
10.Epaphroditus (Philippians 2:26)
4 examples of sparing words:
1. Aaron (Leviticus 10:3)
2. Moses (Numbers 16:4; 20:6)
3. Samuel (1 Samuel 8:6-8)
4. Christ (1 Peter 2:23)